While that may be true, it must be very puzzling then, if you are a young reader and you have real-world experience with many men in your life whose behaviour is exactly opposite that: men are seeking anything but. Not overtly. Not covertly.
If you are a man with experience you probably know the case why that is so. But for all those who isn't a man, or is but young and inexperienced, let me tell you what's up: it's game over for us. We have officially lost the battle of the sexes. And we have accepted defeat.
If you've been reading my blog, you must have come across my article "You are a utility". I explained why as a man, you are only worth whatever benefit others can derive from you. Other than that, you have zero worth. Nobody cares. Nobody gives a shit what happens to you. You could go out tonight and get hit by a car and die, and nobody would bat an eyelid for you - except your parents and siblings of course.
The people who WILL cry, they won't cry because they miss YOU ---- they'll cry because they've lost their source of benefit. Now they'll have to find another. It's the same as someone who broke his/her expensive equipment. No difference.
I find it funny that male deaths are depicted in such drama, like people ACTUALLY cared. I almost laugh when people say "we lost a good boy/man today". In my mind, I'm like " No sir, you lost your utility! You didn't give a damn about him when he was alive, and you sure don't give a damn about him now"!
We men who've seen it all, we know it's a futile effort to go and pursue women who don't value you for who you are. I speak from personal experience: almost all women will want a good-looking partner. They will say that looks don't matter ---- just pick up any scientific study that measures facial attractiveness to mating success in males. You'd know. But just being good-looking won't cut it. You gotta have those resources too. You need to be a complete package. You need to have everything.
Ah, yes! I know if you're a young man reading this--- I know that feeling.... The feeling of being butthurt. I know you're thinking something in the lines of "why does it have to be so hard for us..... ? ". Well chill out. You know nothing in this life is free with out labour.
The grass isn't green on the other side either. A woman is picky because she GOT to be picky. She carries a lot of consequences if she's stepping into a relationship with a man. Aside the obvious physical burdens of getting pregnant, there's also the fact that too many relationships with men drains her "romantic energy" and dilutes her expectation. Double if she's anything below average looking. That's 40% of women in this world. They've got it shitty too, if not shittier. But unlike us men, they have one thing going for them. They have a vey good support system which protects them from being emotionally castrated. And they should. Speaking from an evolutionary point of view, should women start feeling like theyve had enough, we will literally be on the path to the extinction of our species.
Then you'd ask what about men? Well, it's doesn't matter if a few, or even a major chunk of us decide to give up. If you want 10 babies you need 10 women (well obviously one woman may be enough but we're speaking in practical terms here). You don't need 10 men. 9 of them could just disappear and it won't make a difference.
Like I said, utility of a man is what determines whether he'll be successful in the mating game. And if 1 man successfully accumulates enough resources and beats the other 9 by a large margin, he can have all the 10 women to himself. They'd all choose him. Women have done that in the past. That's why you hear of tales of kings having 100 wives. Women would rather share a successful husband than have a whole unsuccessful man to herself. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
And we experienced men know this. That's why some of us have chosen to exclude ourselves of this drama. Just switch off. Why compete? I don't want to compete with a man for the chance of accruing a liability. I won't.
What I'd rather do is assimilate my efforts and trade my labour to the man who will be successful, perhaps assist him in attaining that success, in exchange for the extremely crucial resources that are necessary for my survival.
The realization of this truth have mentally removed the desire to mate and seek out women for me and many others that I know. You are bound to experience a few of them in your own life, but I doubt they'll be vocal about it. It feels empowering. It feels free. It's not easy; it's hard. We have to go against our very nature and biology. Well, biology doesn't give a shit about your mental well-being. It'd pit you against each other. It'd see you destroy yourself only for the pursuit of a greater agenda; it's selfish.
We are better off this way. At least we can be content.
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